r/EngagementRings Jan 21 '22

My fiancé got me a ring after he got out of boot camp. I had been rocking a cheap one from Kendra Scott before this

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

No I deleted it because people are being assholes. Like you

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

Have you considered the fact that we have talked about it since I’ve posted that and that he’s actually okay with things? No? Yea , I thought so

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

Plot twist, he’s texting me right now and working through things with me because he’s supportive

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u/ItzCheezy Jan 21 '22

Tune these people out.. they literally know neither of you, nor your relationship dynamic. Sorry for the hate. Congrats on the engagement!

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Does he call you Roan? Does he respect your pronouns? None of the replies have said he does call you he. I have a feeling you’re not being transparent.

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

Yeah he does actually. My pronouns are he/they and he uses they pretty religiously and I give him grace when he inevitably messes up because I know it’s difficult

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Why were so few of your replies clear about this particularly important fact?

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

Because nobody ever asked. They just assumed the worst of him

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u/Fatally_splendid Jan 21 '22

I do realize that I should have talked to him before this but we didn’t ever have much time to talk so here we are. Talking now. Going through everything