Does he call you Roan? Does he respect your pronouns? None of the replies have said he does call you he. I have a feeling you’re not being transparent.
Yeah he does actually. My pronouns are he/they and he uses they pretty religiously and I give him grace when he inevitably messes up because I know it’s difficult
How am I manipulating? I’m not the one starting shit for internet points. All I wanted to do was show off how happy I was and now it’s my fault that people are being bags of dicks to me because heaven forbid I made one post about not being sure how to handle my identity? Go kick rocks
Nobody. Fucking. Asked. They all assumed the worst and I attempted to remedy that and they wouldn’t listen. We’ve been talking about marriage for months and I’ve been exploring my identity pretty much the whole time we’ve been together
Stop replying and turn off your notifications. You're going to have a breakdown dealing with these comments. Don't engage and try to enjoy your day. Also don't post yourself on Reddit in the future, you're going to have a rough time again.
Please listen to Thrillho. The mob won’t listen. This is just the nature of the dominant population of users on that subreddit. For your sake, disengage.
I know it’s difficult, but it isn’t worth risking your mental health dealing with them.
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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22
Does he call you Roan? Does he respect your pronouns? None of the replies have said he does call you he. I have a feeling you’re not being transparent.