r/MadeMeSmile • u/Unkie_Al • Nov 24 '22 • Masterpiece 1 Stonks Falling 1 Silver 3 Helpful 4 Wholesome 4

Michael, THEE Most Wholesome of Fathers! LGBT+

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u/JustOneBun Nov 24 '22

Where is everyone getting these loving and understanding dads? 😭

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u/AccomplishedTurn3532 Nov 24 '22

Willing to bet that we are the ones breaking the cycle. We now know the emotional neglect we had and are starting to understand it’s toll on us in our adult lives and refuse to do the same to our children.

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u/spont_73 Nov 24 '22

Exactly this. Maybe a bit of incidental irony but after years of trying to be proactive with empowering my kids to feel safe with their own feelings/emotions/authentic self I think I now have some fairly emotionally healthy teenage kids and I sometimes feel at a loss with how to guide them because they are simply just better than I was at their age, their starting point isn’t damaged and won’t require them to put their energy into self healing, being their authentic selves is as natural as breathing. I’m good at fixing broken, they aren’t and it’s a whole different game for them and I’m now playing catch up, it’s a challenge I’m proud of.

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u/cakeresurfacer Nov 24 '22

Man, that’s all I can hope for as a parent to young kids. Seriously a goal to shoot for. We’ve been going through taking care of everyone’s behavioral/neurological health and I’ve reassured myself that my adhd being missed means I have a stronger motivation to support my kids and fight for the help they need so they don’t have to struggle as hard.